Showing posts with label Opinion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Opinion. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Wednesday's Rantings: Do I Stay Or Do I Go?

It's Wednesday!  I haven't done this in a few weeks (I'll just blame March), but it's time for me to chit chat and rant a little about the random things I think about on a daily basis.

This week's topic:
To Stay On Blogger, Or To Move On

I started on Blogger back in July of last year.  It was perfect for me, since I had absolutely no previous experience with creating any type of website.  The setup was simple, beginner-friendly, and I learned a lot!

After creating this book blog, I caught the bug and wanted to make a dance website, one my dance students could use.  But because I was still new and shy to the whole thing, so I ended up making a dance blog, not a dance website.

The more comfortable I got with Blogger, the more restrictive I began to find it.  I know a little code now, but only enough to make small changes and add little gadgets and the like.  I have no clue how to completely change a template, such as how to create drop-down menus, or how to design a page and make it look exactly the way I want it.  I felt like I either had to teach myself all the codes, which I don't have time for, or find a new website builder that allowed me to get a little more creative.  I decided to do the latter and experiment a little.

Thursday, March 19, 2015

Wednesday's Rantings: Trying to find a day off....and figuring out what to do with it.

Hello folks!
Well, I'm late posting....again.  Part of it is procrastination.  Part of it is because I'm not a fast writer and I quite simply Don't. Have. Time!

I've tried setting aside a few hours of my free time to write for my blog and update my sites, but it's hard!  Being a self-employed dance teacher means that I'm responsible for my own schedule, and since my monthly income depends on getting as many private lessons as possible, my schedule becomes very irregular from week to week, so I frequently end up with much less time to blog than I originally intended.

I know, I know, I should just say "no!" to some appointments, but I gotta say, I like having money!  I like being able to pay my bills and have a lot of money left over for the inevitable tax return that I have to fill out, which will tell me that I owe the IRS money in the 4-digits range.  I like the feeling of success and the knowledge that I have students who think I do a good enough job that they want to come back.  This month has literally been the most successful month I've had in a while.

The erratic schedule of the past few months is taking a toll on me, though.  I looked back through my calendars, and I've discovered that I have been working every day since March 1st!  I've been dancing for 5-10 hours each day, every day.  The only day that was kinda a day off was last Friday, and that was only because I had one private lesson.  The lesson still broke my afternoon in half, though, and I still had to dedicate 2-1/2 hours of my time to said private lesson, so that really can't count as a day of relaxation.

Thank God Saturday doesn't have anything scheduled.  I checked, and once I saw it was clear, I made sure no appointments would be made that day.  I have a day off this Saturday! Whoo-hoo!!!!

God, I need a break.  I apologize to those who are reading this (especially if any of you are my students), but I felt like ranting a little.  I put myself into this insanity and now I'm facing the consequences.  I'm doing a good job, and I love it, but I'm exhausted!  I'm starting to feel a little more introverted and anti-social now, which is unfortunate because I need to be a perky, energetic person for my job.  The past couple of days have especially hard; it's just so difficult to keep smiling and stay positive for the sake of your students, when all you really want to do is go home, lie down on the couch with the cat, and do things that don't involve talking to real people (besides your husband, of course).  It's even harder when you feel so tired and frazzled that you can't remember what you did the last time you worked with that student, and you're feeling frustrated with, and distracted by, your memory loss.

I ended up playing hooky tonight instead of helping out with the group classes like I normally do (it helps when the owner of the studio is your mother).  I just felt like I couldn't focus clearly on the dancers, nor could I bring up enough energy to talk to them and socialize, and just be nice in general.  I had a feeling that I was going to have to fake a whole lot of my behavior tonight, which our studio's dancers don't deserve, so I decided to just go home and recuperate.  So far, it feels like I did the right thing, because now I'm starting to relax a little, and I feel like I can get a good night's rest tonight.  Plus, I get to catch up on my blogging!  Yay!

So now that I know I'm going to get a whole day off this Saturday, what am I going to do with it?  I have no idea!  The important thing is that I have nothing that needs to be done, and no place I need to be at a specific time.  My biggest fear is that I'm going to waste the day on a T.V. binge; an easy thing to do when you've got Netflix.  What I hope to do though, is to go for a walk (if the weather is nice), listen to some more Harry Potter with my husband, read a bit, and just catch up on things that I haven't had the time to do lately (such as clean the friggin' apartment!)  Here's to hoping that this little spot of optimism will come true!

Well, I'd better stop for now; the laundry needs folding and the bed is saying "co-ome to meeee!" (talking inanimate objects--first sign of insanity. Crap.) Have a good night everyone!

-Lisa The Dancing Bookworm

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Wednesday's Opinion: These Are A Few Of My Favorite (Harry Potter) Things

Ugh. I haven't been posting a whole lot lately.  In my defense, I had a butt-load of dance-teaching stuff over the past two days, so getting a chance to sit down in front of my computer and force my brain to think about writing was really difficult to do.  Note to self: do a mass blog-writing session and schedule posts!

Anyway, this week's opinion:

A Few Of My Favorite Harry Potter Things

There are so many reasons to love the Harry Potter, but one of the big reasons why we Potterholics love it so much is the magical world that J.K. Rowling created; a wonderful place that feels oh-so-real but is just out of reach.  The spells, the books, Quidditch...there's just so much about "the wizarding community" that a Potter fan can love.

So, the question is, what is it specifically that we love about Potter's world that we truly wish was real so we could try it?  So I figured today I'd list a few of my favorite Harry Potter things, just for fun!

(WARNING: THERE BE SPOILERS! If you haven't read the Harry Potter books and you really want to, continue reading at your own risk!  Most aren't really spoilers, but I mention which characters have died in the stories, and which survive, get married and have children.)

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Wednesday's Opinion: What Would I Do If I Won The Lottery

Happy Wednesday everyone!  Although technically I'm writing this on Tuesday, and I'm looking out the window and seeing this:



or this:


Yep, that's right.  Blizzard Colbie has completely engulfed Connecticut, and they're predicting 14"-22" of snow by the end of the day.  Snow day!  The timing couldn't have been even more perfect.  I have a slight cold so a couple of days off is much needed to recuperate.

So while I'm snuggled up on my chair with a nice warm blanket and a cup of yummy coffee, I figured I'd type up my weekly opinions meme!

This week's opinion:

What Would I Do If I Won The Lottery


Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Wednesday's (Formerly Tuesday's) Opinion: I Am Feminist And I'm Proud Of It!

Hey readers!  Every week I stand on my little soapbox and say what I think!
This week:

Why I'm Proud To Be A Feminist

Lately, we've been seeing women celebrities saying they're not a feminist, and women in general are responding everywhere, claiming not to be feminists.

My response?  I'm a feminist and I'm proud of it!

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Wednesday's (Formerly Tuesday's) Opinion: Why Dance Instruction Videos Shouldn't Replace Dance Classes

Happy Wednesday everyone!  I'm a day late with my Tuesday's Opinion thing, and since that's been happening a lot lately, I think I'll just move it over to Wednesday and use Tuesday to write up most of it.

This week's opinion:
Why Dance Instruction Videos Shouldn't Replace Actual Dance Classes

In this day and age, technology and the Internet makes it supremely easy to access information of all sorts.  You can find information and advice for your health, lifestyle, hobbies, and news.  Youtube in particular has numerous instructional videos for just about anything....including how to dance.

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Tuesday's Opinion: My Top Ten Pet Peeves When Ballroom Dancing



Hello everyone!  I haven't posted anything about dancing for a while, so I figured I post something now.

As most of you know by now, I'm a ballroom dance teacher.  I have a whole lot of dance experience, both positive and negative.  So I've decided to post:

My top pet peeves when ballroom dancing



Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Tuesday's Opinion: Which "Problems Of A Book Nerd" Reflects Me?

Happy Tuesday everyone!

As always, I try to say a little something on Tuesdays, but this week, I'm going to do something a little different.  Some weeks back, I looked up the blog called Problems Of A Book Nerd, and wow, I love the problems she posts!  I spent a couple of hours clicking through the phrases (some are really funny), and then submitted my own problem.  And guess what?!  She posted it a week ago!!!


This one's mine!!

I guess there's not much to be excited about, but I think it's kinda cool how we can share something over the web, and a person whom you never met before acknowledges what you say and shares it with others.  So long as it's safe and benign, it's pretty nifty.

If you look in my "Book Stuff" page, you'll notice I put a bunch of these Problems there.  These are the problems I can relate to.  I figured this week I take these problems and show you

My Top 25 "Problems Of A Book Nerd" Problems

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Tuesday's Opinion (A Day Late): Ten Things To Be Thankful For

Happy Tuesday folks! (yes, I know it's Wednesday.  I'm a little late with this post.  Deal with it)  It's already time for my own weekly meme, where I discuss my thoughts and opinions on everything under the sun!

This week, since we're only 2 days away from Thanksgiving:
Ten Things That I'm Thankful For

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Tuesdays Opinion: What I Think About Books Being Made Into Movies

It's Tuesday folks!  And it's time for my opinions!

This week: 
My Opinions On Books Being Made Into Movies

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Tuesdays Opinions: Legalizing Marijuana, Should It Be Done?


Hey folks!  It's Tuesday and it's Election Day!  As always, on Tuesdays I prefer to talk about my opinions on certain topics.  Usually it's a book-related topic, but since it's Election Day, I think I'll talk about one of those issues that have been cropping up in the news lately.  And that's about the legalization of marijuana that's been going on in a few states.



Let me begin by saying that, besides alcohol, I have never, nor will I ever, do drugs.  I am not a pothead, nor am I even remotely curious about what getting high is like.  The only drug I do take every once in a while is alcohol, and even then I rarely get drunk.  I was always the good girl who paid attention in school, so I believed the guest speakers who said that drugs will kill you.  To top it off I have a social worker for a husband, who deals with people with addictions on a daily basis, so there’s a lot factors in my life that have convinced me that drugs are bad.


With that being said, I do think marijuana should be legalized throughout the entire country.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

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Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Tuesday's Opinions: When Authors Get It Right

 It's Tuesday!  Every week, I write about what I think, be it dance-related or book-related, because I don't often get a chance to share my views in the real world, so why not say it in cyberspace? :)

This week I want to talk about when authors get a book right.


When Authors Get It Right
Every reader has experienced this: they find a book that goes above and beyond their expectations. The book changes their life and stays with them long after they've read it.  It's a book they could read over and over again and never tire of.  It's a book where the author got it right.

So how can an author get it right?  What makes a book or series so amazing?  I think it comes down to 5 essential things: Character development, Writing, Plot Flow, Creativity, and Morality.  If an author can get all five of these things right, then you get something wonderful as a result.


Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Tuesday's Opinions: My Top Ten Peeves When Reading



Well, it’s Tuesday, and I haven’t done this in a while, so I figured it’s about time I do this again.
This week’s opinion: My top ten pet peeves when reading


We all have opinions on what constitutes a good book and what constitutes a bad book.  And we know these things based on our experiences with reading.
About once a month, I come across a book that really bugs me.  And I mean, I really, really don’t like it.  Basically there are things about the book that seriously annoy me when I’m trying to enjoy the story.

Below are pet peeves I have regarding some of the books I end up reading. 


Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Tuesday's Opinions: Writer's Block

It's Tuesday!  And this week's opinion: Writer's Block.

I confess I was totally stumped on what to write about today.  My brain feels officially fried.  I spent the past two weeks creating a new blog for my dance students (Dance Away! A Blog For Ballroom Dancers, in case you were wondering), and the amount of research and decision-making put into the blog was mentally exhausting.  This morning, I've just been sitting and staring blankly at this post's draft page, wondering what the hell I was going to write about.  So I figured I'd just write about my current problem: the dreaded writer's block.


I hate writer's block.  There's this feeling you get when you have it, like you know there's a room full of writing inspiration and creativity in the back of your brain, but the door to it is currently shut and locked, and you've misplaced the key.  And while you are desperately searching under the metaphoric couch cushions and deep inside the metaphoric black hole of a purse, there's your writing deadline; you must finish writing by the end of the day, or else your day is a total failure.




They say when you have writer's block should go for a walk, or just write about anything and everything.  I find that rarely works for me.  If I go for walk, then my mind just goes off somewhere else and thinks about random things that makes me wonder whether I have ADD or something.  I start daydreaming about what I would do if I won a million dollars, or of being a famous dancer on TV, and by the time I've come back to my desk, I discover I've still got nothing.  And if I just randomly start writing, I might get something really cool....just not for the thing I'm supposed to write about.

I've pulled all-nighters in the past because I can't figure out what to write for school papers.  Many times I thought I could be an author, but then my creativity would fizzle out by the time I figured out the first paragraph.  Apparently I have a creativity block when it comes to writing (kind of ironic considering I have blog now, right?).

Do I have my solution to writer's block?  Not really.  My best results usually come from have a good night's rest or from reading a book or article that relates somewhat to what I'm supposed to write about.  That frequently seems to help.  Motivation is a huge factor as well.  If I really don't want to write about a topic, my room of inspiration becomes deadbolted and barricaded with heaps of furniture and walls of cement, that even the world's biggest metaphorical battering ram can't break down (hence the all-nighters in college).  Sometimes, just finding the motivation to write is all I need to overcome the block.

In the end, writer's block can be dealt with, it's just a matter of when and how.  Such as today.  This morning I had no idea what to write about, but it seems that I've managed to wring something out of my tired brain.  Now I can shut my eyes and yawn, and then maybe take a nap. 




Note to self for the future: jot down some writing ideas for Tuesday's Opinions before Tuesday!

This has been a (short) posting from your local dancing bookworm.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Tuesday's Opinions: F2F vs. Online Book Groups

It's Tuesday!  And this week's topic: Book groups.

Two years ago, I began to crave the company of other book lovers.  None of my friends and family are avid readers; if they do read a book, it's not normally something I would read.  So I wanted to go join some book clubs, and have intelligent conversations with other like-minded individuals.
I'm sure fellow bibliophiles have felt the same way at some point in their lives.  We feel like we are surrounded by people who don't appreciate books nearly as much as we do, and we need to embark on a quest to find others with whom we can relate.


But the question is: should you look for online book groups, or physical groups?


When I first went in search of book clubs to join, the first thing I looked for were Face-to-face (F2F) book groups at nearby libraries.  Unfortunately, my job usually keeps me busy at night, which is when all the groups nearby seemed to take place.  But I kept looking, and I finally found a sci-fi/fantasy book club that would meet once a month.  I figured, well I like fantasy, so why not?  I dutifully read the book of the month (BOTM), and I attended the club meeting at a nearby Barnes&Noble.

As it turned out, it was definitely not the group for me.  I made two more attempts to like this group, but after the third meeting I attended, it was pretty clear that I had struck out.  There were a few warning flags from the very beginning that told me that this group wasn't the right fit.  For one thing, they all liked the book that was chosen; I was the only who hated it, so clearly there was a bit of a difference in preference.  For another, there wasn't much discussion on the book, beyond a simple "I liked it" or "I didn't like it".  I had been hoping for a more detailed discussion (the book had a lot of potential for a good critical debate), but it seemed like there was only one other person wanted to go more in depth with the conversation, and we couldn't get a good conversation going.  Everyone else was more interested in trying out this board game that the group leader brought in, which involved creating the most outrageous and inappropriate scenarios you could possibly make.  An entertaining game for a party with close friends, maybe, but kind of inappropriate for a group of adults in a public place.  I mean, I'm not a huge snob or anything, but this group felt a little crass to me.  Sure they were friendly, but they spoke a little too loudly for a bookstore cafe, and they swore without considering the families who were nearby.  At one point our group was requested to quiet down (I think they were actually threatening to kick us out), but that only made some of the members defensive, and unwilling to cooperate.  I mean, I was one of the youngest people in the gathering, but the majority of them acted like they were still freshmen in college.  Their behavior sort of rubbed me the wrong way; I don't want to get kicked out of Barnes &Noble, I just want to talk about books!

For my first ever F2F book club, this was a huge disappointment; it subsequently discouraged me from looking for other groups because I felt I wouldn't be able to fit in with the other members.  So I went searching for an online connection instead.
It didn't take long for me to discover Shelfari, a wonderful, amazing site where I could keep an online bookshelf, and join online book discussion groups.  And these groups actually discussed books!  There were monthly BOTMs with discussion questions, and reading challenges that were fun to participate in.  I was in love.  It was perfect.  It was exactly what I wanted.  I've been exclusively online ever since, eventually expanding my experience into Goodreads as well as Shelfari.

There's one little problem, though; I'm still sort of lonely.  I've never actually met my online friends.  Our conversations are through messages only, and while these dialogues are always fun, the online connection creates a huge distance between people, making online groups a fun, but still lonely experience.  Lately I've been craving a human connection in addition to the relationships I've made in cyberspace, so I've starting looking for F2F groups again.  And I've actually found a few library meetups that I can try without any interference from my irregular schedule. 

So, what's the answer to my question?  F2F or online?  My answer is: it's up to you.  Some people prefer the anonymity of online groups, while others prefer the human connections you make in an F2F group.  An online group can fit your needs easily, including a busy schedule, but you lack human contact, something we all need at a basic level.  A F2F group can provide that contact, but a good group is hard to find; you'll be lucky if you find one that not only fits your personality and preferences, but your schedule as well.
So really it all depends. 

For me, I want both.  I love my online groups, but I really want to be able to talk face-to-face with a fellow reader, so a physical group in addition to my online ones would be amazing.  I have no clue what to expect at the upcoming group meetings I plan to attend (there are 3 of them), but I sincerely hope that I may find what I am looking for.

What do you guys think?  Do you prefer F2F or online?

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Tuesday's Opinion: The Benefits Of Dance Shoes and How To Buy Them

A dance-themed opinion today!  This week:


 Ballroom Dance Shoes

I often get these two questions when I teach new students:

1) What kind of shoes should I wear?

and

2) Should I get special dance shoes?

Dancing, like any other physical activity, requires certain equipment to keep you comfortable for extended periods of time.  With the clothing, there's nothing to worry about: you simply wear something practical that you easily move around in, be it casual or fancy.

But when it comes to shoes, that's a completely different story.

To beginner dancers, I tell them not to worry about buying new shoes; there's really no need for dance shoes when all you're doing are the basics.  Just wear something you already have at home. 
Sneakers and dress shoes work pretty well
The best non-dance shoes to wear is something light and comfortable that won't easily slip off the foot.  Ideally you'd want something with a smooth and slippery bottom.  Dress shoes work really well, and so do sneakers, although sneakers tend to grip the floor a little too much, which can making turning difficult.




Avoid clunky shoes and flip flops!
Avoid heavy boots or anything with a rubber sole that can leave black marks on the floor. And especially avoid flip flops or clunky shoes.  I cringe every time I see flip flops on the dance floor; they mean difficult and clumsy dancing ahead with that person.  I remember a dancer coming in to our intermediate class once a few years back, wearing wooden thong sandals, with a thick and heavy 2-inch heel.  Pretty sandals, but man!  We were dancing cha cha, which involves lots of steps, and you could hear those clunky sandals for the entire lesson.  CLUNK! CLUNK-CLUNK-CLUNK! CLUNK-CLUNK!  What was worse, the shoes were inhibiting her ability to dance, so the timing of her clunking was completely off, and her steps were clumsy and slow.  She might have done all right if she had taken those shoes off, but she ended up having an unnecessarily difficult time instead.  Let this story be a word of warning to all dancers: Wear... Appropriate....Shoes!


With that being said, what's the big deal about dance shoes?  Well!

Technique is crucial the more advanced you get
In the beginning dance shoes aren't necessary: you're too focused on learning the basic moves to concentrate on technique.  But the more advanced you get, the more important technique becomes.  And when I say technique, I mean that you must become more comfortable with keeping your weight forward on the ball of your feet.  You use the ball for turning and for balance; your steps will not feel good or even look good if you don't rely on that part of your foot.

You need to be able to point your toe
Good technique also involves the ability flex and point your toes, and maintaining
constant contact with the floor in some way shape or form, be it a slight brush with your toe, or a full step that takes your weight.

All this technique is virtually impossible to do in a regular shoe.  Regular shoes have thick, inflexible soles that are frequently meant to grip the floor.  They are made for walking, or for appearances, but certainly not for dancing.
Dance shoes are built specifically for dancing.  They are meant to endure constant, prolonged movement.  They are flexible, with thin suede soles that allow for ease of turns and the ability to feel contact with the floor.  By wearing dance shoes, you can not only apply good technique to your steps, but you also are more aware of how well you're applying your footwork, therefore allowing you to advance and improve your dancing.

Never had to resort to this!
Have I mentioned yet that dance shoes are comfortable?  They're built for endurance as well as flexibility, so you're able to dance the night away!  You can even last a while in 3-inch heels!  Because of their comfort, I've gotten into the habit of wearing dance shoes at weddings; as a result I am usually the last women still wearing her heels at the end of the night.

So, to answer the two questions I wrote at the beginning of this article, yes, you should get dance shoes, but only if you're starting to go beyond the basics and are interested in improving your dancing.  If you're only just starting you shouldn't worry about it, but instead wear comfortable shoes that aren't heavy, grippy, or clunky.

Now, once it's been decided that my students are going to get dance shoes, I frequently get this follow-up question: what kind of dance shoes should you get and where can you get them?  So here's a little extra info for you to help you find the right pair for you:

Kinds Of Shoes:
shoes that bend like this have no arch support
First off, make sure it's ballroom dance shoe.  There are some ballet and jazz shoes out
there that resemble ballroom shoes, but really aren't.  A ballroom dance shoe is generally made of leather, and contains a steel half-arch that allows you to point your toe without losing your arch support.  Ballet and jazz shoes are split-soled and can fold in half easily,  thus they have no arch support .  Avoid those.
Some people prefer to use dance sneakers for dancing and I admit I'm one of them; they're great for a long night of Swing dancing.  But I don't recommend using them all the time.  Dance sneakers either have too much flexibility (Jazz) or too little (general).  They also tend to be cumbersome for any dance other than swing.

Some people prefer dance sneakers

There are three types of ballroom shoes: Standard, Latin, and Practice. 
Men's standard

Standard is what the guys typically wear; they look like black dress shoes.  For the ladies, standard is a closed toe shoe with a heel that's meant for traveling backwards; they're ideal for the smooth dances, such waltz and foxtrot.

Ladie's Latin







Latin shoes for the ladies are open-toed sandals with a 1- to 3-inch heel.  They're perfect for Latin dances such as Rumba and Salsa, but they also work great for all the other dance styles.  If you're only getting one pair, I would recommend a Latin shoe.

Practice Shoes
For the guys, a Latin shoe means having what's called a Cuban Heel-- a 1.5-inch heel that's only really used in competitions.  I recommend just getting a Standard shoe instead.

Practice shoes don't look or feel any different for the guys, but for a ladies' shoe, it means something with a low heel that kind of resembles a man's standard shoe, but with a more flexible outside.  These shoes are practical and comfortable, and are great for Swing and general dancing.




Brands And What To Look For:
When you go shopping for dance shoes, you are mainly looking for comfort and ease of movement.  A ballroom shoe should feel snug, like a slipper.  The toes should be flush to the edge, and your foot shouldn't slide around inside.  A good rule to follow is to select a shoe that's at least half a shoe size smaller than what you would normally wear.

For a ladies' high-heeled shoe, there should be enough cushion in the front to keep you comfortable.  If you're trying on a shoe and it feels really hard right off the bat, don't get it.  A good high-heeled shoe shouldn't make you feel like you're wearing high heels; it should feel natural.


There are many different shoe brands out there, and you should pick the one you like best.  For myself, there are three brands I like:


1) Very Fine Dance Shoes: This is my go-to brand, and ideal for those who are buying shoes for the first time.  They're cheap for dance shoes ($60-$100), but they're easy to break in, and come in a wide range of options, including customizable options.  They don't last very long, however.  As a teacher I end up destroying them in a matter of months, but for the average dancer they might last for a good couple of years
2) Stephanie Dance Shoes: I've tried this brand about once or twice, and they're pretty decent.  Like Very Fine, they're a cheaper shoe, but they last a tiny bit longer than the other brand.  However, they are also a little more difficult to break in (my pair gave me blisters for a couple of weeks before it became comfortable enough).  But they are decent shoes that are affordable and stay comfortable for hours.
3) Supadance: This is a higher-end brand.  They're more expensive (the cheapest is easily over $100), but they can last for years, even decades.  These shoes were built for competitors, so they can withstand constant abuse.  They are also very comfortable.  My mother, a very experienced dancer, stands by this brand.


Buying A Shoe:
 go to a dance store first
There are two ways to buy a shoe: either online or at a dance supply store.  If it's your first time buying a pair, I would go to a physical store so you can try on different styles, sizes, and brands, with the help of a salesperson who understands what you need.  You will always find a wider range of choices online, however, and frequently at lower prices.  The only problem with purchasing a pair online is that it takes time for the company to deliver it, and you're ordering a shoe without trying it on first, which is always a bit of a gamble.  So when you're purchasing online, make sure you try the shoes on immediately upon delivery, and make sure you try them on soft carpet; carpeting won't scuff the shoes, so if they don't fit well, you can return them and get your money back.

So there you go!  This is quite a lot of information, so I hope it's useful.  If you need more information, or if you need places to purchase some shoes, here are some links:

Places Where I Like Buy Online:
My Favorite Dance Store In Connecticut:

Additional Helpful Websites:

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Tuesday's Opinions: Abridged Books

It's funny how lately I can't seem to publish a post by Tuesday afternoon.  Maybe I should rethink this and make it "Wednesday's Opinions".  

Well, anyway, this week's opinion is book-themed and it's about a huge pet peeve of mine, and since I encountered it once again a couple of weeks ago, I felt the need to vent.  This week's topic is:

Abridged Books




They're out there.  They're hiding in the shelves, on the web.  They look so innocent, so tempting, but they should be avoided at all costs.  They're abridged books and they're sneaky little pretenders.

I hate audiobooks, can you tell?  They've ruined many a good book for me, and lately it seems that I don't catch that they're abridged until it's too late.

Abridged books are books that have been edited to within an inch of their life, reducing the book to a quarter of it's original size.  It is often argued that abridged reads shorten reading time, or in the case of audiobooks, listening time.  They are supposed to keep the tone and mood of the story, in addition to maintaining the storyline itself.  They're also often cheaper than the originals.


I'm sure there are people out there who prefer abridged book, but I am certainly not one of them.  When it comes to fiction, I always prefer the unabridged version, and so far there are no exceptions to this rule.
I despise abridged novels, with a passion.  I find they are choppy and incomplete, no matter how well they are edited.  Back stories and "superfluous" scenes are usually the first to go when a book gets abridged, but I think those scenes are necessary to the story; they provide more information on the whys and hows of a characters' behavior, so by the end of the story you're not left wondering the point of the whole thing.  With an abridged book, the scenes change abruptly and you suddenly have a new plot event thrown in your face. Like, remember that one character that was mentioned in only one paragraph in the beginning?  Well, yeah, apparently she was in love with the villain and unknowingly gave him important information to use against the heroes--apparently he's a very charismatic villain, whodathunk it?  This, by the way, was what happened in the abridged book I recently finished.
Abridged reads can really ruin a story, but sometimes they're so hard to catch.  When I read Lord Of The Silent two weeks ago, I thought the audiobook just failed to fully download.  It wasn't until I was an hour from finishing that I discovered it wasn't.  I had read the book years back, and I could only vaguely remember the plot, so I didn't catch the deviousness of the editing until it was too late.  Suffice it to say that I got my money back from Audible.
Some months earlier, I listened to I Capture The Castle by Dodie Smith.  I had borrowed it from the library, and I checked and double-checked the box to make sure it wasn't abridged (4 CDs, really? It must be abridged!).  But I saw no writing saying it was abridged so I listened to it.  I wasn't enjoying the read (why do people like this book?  I don't get it!), but towards the end I began to suspect the true nature of what I was listening to, so I looked at the miniscule fine print at the bottom of the box.  Sure enough there was the nefarious sentence: "an abridged recording". This book is forever ruined for me, because I didn't like it in the abridged format, and there's uncertainty that I'd like it better as unabridged.

I understand the occasional need for abridged books.  It would make the classics more accessible to kids, and sometimes it's useful for non-fiction reads that have a lot of jargon.  But for the average adult like myself, abridging a fiction novel is unnecessary and negatively affects the book's tone, mood, and continuity.  I never met an abridged read that I actually liked, and I always try to avoid them.  If I discover early on that the book I'm reading is abridged, I will stop reading it (one of those rare instances where I won't finish a novel).  If you have ever wondered if an abridged novel is worth it, I will tell you that, in my opinion, it definitely isn't.  A book deserves to be read in it's original form, no matter the length, and it deserves judgment based on it's original length.  If you didn't like it unabridged, then at least you gave the book a fair chance.  If you didn't like it when it was abridged, then there's a good chance that you were robbed of your ability to like it.  

So here's my word of caution: do not read abridged books!  Check and re-check that the book you're reading isn't abridged (they have to say it somewhere, so keep looking!), and read the whole thing, even if it's a super-long classic by a long-winded author like Victor Hugo and Charles Dickens.  Unabridged is always better.

Happy reading y'all!
-Lisa The Dancing Bookworm